Multiple orgasms are considered the “holy grail” of sex for women – if you can give her more than one, you’re golden. Porn stars are often looked at as “sex gurus” – and in a way, they are. They do it A LOT more than the average person. Adult films are known for featuring some of the hottest women on earth, but they aren’t just about showcasing women who look good on camera.
The people who are able to make a career in the adult industry are all known being abso-freaking-lutely AMAZING in bed. The top porn stars in the world are better at giving their partners incredibly intense orgasms than just about anybody out there.
Can You Have A Porn Star Sex Life?
Now, just because you might never be receiving an award at the AVN, doesn’t mean you can’t have the sex life of a porn star. Here are several very powerful ways to give your partner multiple orgasms BEFORE you penetrate her, using only your fingers.
So how do you give your partner incredible, body-shaking orgasms with nothing but your fingers? Simple, just keep reading, and take notes.
Women can have many kinds of orgasms, but today we are going to focus on two kinds: Clitoral, and G-spot orgasms. First, you are going to learn how to make her cum by each one individually, and then I’m going to show you how to combine them for something so explosive, she very well may pop your ear drums from screaming so loudly.
Clitoral Orgasms
Doctors and other sex education experts have all agreed that a woman’s clitoris was designed solely for sexual pleasure. So being able to stimulate it properly is a great way to make her shake and moan for more.
In order to locate her clitoris, take your middle finger and starting at the opening of her vagina, slowly work your way up a bit, until you feel something that feels like a tiny knot. This, my friend is her clit, and all of the thousands of amazing nerve endings in it will thank you for finding it. Sadly, only about 10% of men know about this magical little spot.
Now, start to slowly make small circles with your finger on her clit (either clock-wise or counter clock-wise, it’s up to you). Once you have a nice comfortable and even pace, you’ll very quickly notice her body shaking and her breathing pattern changing. Keep doing EXACTLY what you are doing. Too many men change up their technique, and this absolutely ruins the experience for women.
You should also keep in mind that the lighter you touch her clitoris, the better. Since she is so sensitive there, touching her any harder then you would touch your laptops track pad, could very easily hurt her and ruin the experience. Just this one simple technique alone can give just about any woman multiple orgasms, very quickly.
G-Spot Orgasms
First of all, the G-spot isn’t actually a “spot,” it’s actually an entire area located approximately 2 inches inside the vagina on the upper vaginal wall (on her stomach side, instead of the anus side).
So while your partner is lying on her back, insert your middle finger in to her vagina, with your palm facing upwards. Stroke your finger along her upper vaginal wall until you find something that feels like a ribbed surface, similar to the inside of your mouth, right behind your top row of front teeth.
Congratulations, you’ve now done something that most men will never do. You’ve found the G-spot! And now that you know where it is, it’s time to learn how to simulate it properly.
With her laying on her back, and you kneeling in front of her, with your middle and ring or pointer fingers touching her G-spot, you are going to want to use a “come over here” motion.
One thing you need to watch out for is the amount of pressure you use when fingering your partner. Most men are very strong, and don’t realize just how much they are using. Remember to be gentle when you are stimulating a woman’s G-spot, because it’s hard for us to enjoy what you’re doing, if is uncomfortable.
How To Tell If She’s Digging It
Okay, so how do you know that you’re woman is really enjoying it? Well asides from the moaning, screaming, body shaking, and her digging her mails in to you; you should pay close attention to her breathing patterns.
If her breathing seems a little erratic, and almost as if she’s panting, then that’s a great clue that you are doing a good job; but you can do even better.
The Ultimate Fingering Orgasm
If you can perfect those two techniques, you will be able to do what 95% of men cannot do – give her a blended orgasm.
If you think about it, combining both techniques should be pretty straightforward right? While your partner is lying on her back, you would use your dominant hand to stimulate her G-spot while simultaneously using your other hand to make those tiny circles on her clitoris.
Well, like most of life’s greatest pleasures, this is a bit trickier then you would think.
Since you are using both of your hands to perform different tasks, the brain has a very difficult time processing both things at the same time. If you have ever tried to play the drums, you should know exactly what I’m talking about.
Practice Makes Perfect
The only way to get this technique down perfectly is to practice, practice, practice. I highly recommend waiting until you are alone in your house to do this. Start by using a pillow as if it was a woman. Lay it down flat on either your bed or couch and imagine that it is your partner’s body.
Start with the clitoris technique for a few minutes, and then switch to the G-spot one. Once you feel comfortable enough, try to do them both at the same time. Most people will find this very frustration at first, but don’t worry. Star very slowly, and then gradually speed up a little.
If you practice this for 10-15 minutes a day, you should have no time mastering it within a couple of days (a week at the most). And then think about how amazing of a feeling it will be to know that you are one of the few people alive with the ability to give virtually any woman you want simultaneous multiple orgasms BEFORE penetration?
21 comments
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This is really thorough and excellent advice. As a woman myself, I can tell you that far too few men have mastered the above techniques. And honestly, I’ve never even had anyone try the double handle, blended orgasm, but that sounds pretty spectacular. I’m for sure going to have to give my husband some pointers from your article! (or maybe I should just have him read it himself?)
I love your suggestion of practicing for 10-15 minutes a day and I’d like to add… think of practicing for 20-30 minutes a day as extra credit 😉
A little secret here too fellas, once you’ve given a woman an orgasm (or preferably multiple orgasms) BEFORE penetration, we are a million times more likely to be able to climax DURING penetration as well. Trust me on that one 😉
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Great advice…thank you so much for the generous explanation….I will practise!
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Thanks for the wonderful tips you have given here. This is the first time
i come across such a technique and appreciate your points here.
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Pleasing a woman has always being my topmost priority nd i value it more than anytin in d world.. Am thanking u 4 ur good work and i hope you would continue to help me give women mind blowing and earth shaking orgasms.. Keep up the good work!
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With due apologies here is a different way to do this double stimulation. With my dominant hand i
gently stimulate G-spot and with my mouth i stimulate the clit(ofcourse proper hygiene has to be
followed while attempting this) and the other free hand should be used to stimulate nipples. Can
you imagine what will happen to the woman? Three sensitive parts of her body are directly and
simulatenously stimulated leading to screeching mind blowing orgasm. Nevertheless i still feel
this teaching should be part of the students curriculum and who knows maybe we will see less of
divorce and more of love-making. Cheers! :o)Regards
Sudhakar -
Can this not be accomplished wirh one hand, i.e.middle finger to the g spot, thumb to the clit?
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It can be accomplished 1 handed, but it’s somewhat based on the nature of the woman’s area as to how easy that is. I’ve actually done it on several occasions (before I even knew this was an offiical ‘technique’). The key here, if you’re going 1 handed is to make sure you have a good angle, which means staying in control of the foreplay, which is good for sex in general. The problem is that your thumb is not as sensitive as say your tounge is, so you can end up being overly hard on the clit, and yeah, being too rough on that results in killing the mood instantly. (remember all those nerve endings? They transmit PAIN too.) *laughS* I’m definitely all for practicing it though! Practice after all, makes permanent. Oh, and just becasuse both hands are busy on her womanhood, doesn’t mean your mouth isn’t free to provide accents. 😛
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As usual a very well and thorough presentation and excellent sound advice – EXCELKLENT. Where were you when I most need you more yr ago than Ill admit to!!!!!! Please keep such articles/blogs cumming. If people follow what you advise they are really in for a GREAT time – pleasuring a partner is what its all about and then having a series of mind blowing orgasms is the icing on the cake. People generally are in far too much of a rush – slow passionate and mindblowing is the most fantastic rout.
Thanks as always and look forward to more
Regards
Philip -
im going to try out with the pillow first, then will let you know about the results after i do it on her, since its from an expert there’s no doubt, its going to work,
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Dear Ladies,
Thank you being wise teachers.
Had to learn everything else without parents teaching us. And, used to practice Tantric sex with my ex wife, but, guess that wasn’t good enough for her. Want to keep my current GF happy, as she enjoys sex. So, want to make sure she’s fully satisfied, multiple times. Want it to be the best it can be, and, no not a Marine. Lol,… Just want it to be good for her, as she makes me happy.
Thanks again, will practice, practice, practice.
Mike Deveau -
Thanks. I assume stroking her G-spot while performing cunnilingus will achieve the same results.
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this is a positive stuffs for me and definetely i ll do it.
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Ahh. You are so wonderful. I remember when I discovered Gabrielle Moore’s website. I had considered my self “pretty good” and all, based upon years of experimenting and reading. But, I was wrong. I discovered (by accident) that learning how to “do” a woman’s body … is best taught … by a woman herself. This seems obvious to me now.
Gabrielle introduced me to all sorts of little tricks. This website introduced me to more. My wife loves it! She really does not know I study all this sort of thing … all she knows is that she’s very, very happy with me in bed. And, I am happy too.
I now know how satisfying it is to truly sexually satisfy my favorite woman. Thank you, thank you, and thank you again!
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This is awesome. I’m so fed up with hearing from women about the husbands and boyfriends out there who don’t put the woman’s pleasure first, and don’t do things like this.
I’m currently single, but rest assured that when I am no longer of that status, I will apply what is written here!
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Very good informative lectures you have…thank you so much…
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Hi Isabella,
These techniques have helped me alot in identifying certain things like the G-spot and also give my girlfriend unlimited clitirol orgasms…
My girlfriend is very orgasmic yet I am struggling to give her G-spot orgasms as she feels uncomfortable with the peeing sensation that occurs and I think I might use to much force… What can you recommend…
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After foreplay,what can i do to go more than one round with my wife.Though,she reaches orgasm during forplay,but after dipping dipping in the cock into her.After releasing i get tired.So what system can i adopt to satisfy her during intercourse when she need me to dip in my cock the more into her.
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This is sexual wisdom at its finest. Thank you. I am enjoying these articles and they come at that right time. There are things I already know but there is always room for improvement. These articles shore up any areas where I have questions. Thank you.
Best,
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After you get good with the above mentioned techniques, form a C with your index finger and thumb…the finger should be placed where you find her G-Sot and your thumb should be lighty pressed on top of her clit, make a come here motion with your finger and at the same time the thumb tip will slide up and down her clit, place your opposite four fingers on her pubic area and apply light circular pressure to enhance her G-Spot feeling at the same time it will help engorge her clit, labias and spot with blood which in turn will make her super horny and orgasmic, go light and take your time so she can enjoy the sensations and watch her orgasm incredibly hard, if the timing is right you can give her a multiple that’s sure to get you a ticket from the local police after you two have awaken the neighbors…enjoy’.
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I have been doing this long before I got to read yours. I now believe that what I had been doing was really scientific. It’s amazing experience!
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Res mam ;
This is So Benifical Things for us Special thanks for that .
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