You know she’ll love it when you buzz her using a bullet: or will get super turned on if she discovers how fun it is to have you plus a vibrator at the same time.
You also want to be one of those open minded guys who’s cool enough to focus on really turning a woman on in the bedroom: you’re not the kind of person to go for vanilla sex day in day out.
That said you don’t want to freak out a woman who isn’t prepared for the buzz a sex toy brings…
So when is it the right time to start experimenting; and bring those sex toys into the bedroom?
1. Every person is different: We know this is an obvious point: but it’s one you’ve got to remember. If you know the girl you’re dating is a fan of Sex & the City, shops at Hustler, and makes rude jokes about your electric toothbrush then sex toys early on will be a no brainer. If you’re dating a girl who’s more straight about sex though getting a 10 incher out will freak her out: so start slow. If she likes being stimulated with your fingers/ tongue ask if she’s ever tried a bullet vibrator and kick things off at a pace she’s comfortable with.
2. What are the circumstances?: There’s a time and a place for everything: and sex toys are no different. If you’ve just started wining and dining a woman you like: a sex toy may jar with the ‘romantic’ tone of your current relationship. However, if you’ve bought a girl back for a one night stand after meeting at a night club in Vegas, and are necking shots out of your hotel mini bar, then something more experimental is going to work. Think about how your environment will affect how experimental she’s feeling.
3. Talk openly about sex: Whipping out a butt plug mid flow is almost guaranteed to freak a girl out. So instead of thinking when is the right time during sex to reach into that drawer; how about you just talk about it beforehand? A great time would be during watching a sexy comedy or when you’re already discussing sex: be relaxed and tell her you’ve always found women using toys sexy… then watch for her response.
4. Respond to her sexual needs: If you’re with one of the many, many women who struggles to come just through penetrative sex, and likes to have clitoral stimulation; then suggesting a vibrator to give her extra pleasure will work well. So next time she’s frantically rubbing her clitoris during sex; now is a great time to reach into that drawer and suggest something a little kinkier.
5. Special occasions: Parties around V day, after an anniversary, or on your birthday can be a great excuses to push the boat out and experiment. Use the ‘guaranteed sex’ you’re due on these days to suggest some further experimentation: and also (hopefully) guarantee her being open minded to trying something a little racier.
Whilst there may not be an exact time frame as to how many dates you should go on before you introduce a sex toy into the bedroom; there are some great opportunities to try it out.
So next time you hit an anniversary, a wild night out one night stand, or encounter a woman who really knows what she wants sexually.. reach for that drawer and have some serious pleasure.
To your sexual future,
Isabella Stone
P.S. If you’re ready to become a master of all things Sex Toy related… purchasing the best quality, most fun and least expensive toys. Using them like a pro… combining them together for even more fun, and teasing her until she screams your name with pleasure at the top of her lungs, then you’re going to need to check out the Sexual Pioneer System!
It is the most complete and advanced training system of it’s kind on the planet, for all things “kink”
If you like this article and want to see more like it, leave me a comment below!
12 comments
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Great article as always. Thanks Isabella!
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dear isabella,
thank you for this article.this will be very useful for me .when i am in this situation. -
You are making the women clitourally dependent
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I wish my wife was a 6ft.tall ravishingly beautifull porn star and then I would have a wild sex life.
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Isabella,
I have already purchased the modules and extras after listening to the story of your sexual transformation a few weeks ago. They have already helped me keep my wife of 36 years happier. In the process of purchasing these videos I never got to hear the end of the story. What happened after your friend showed up with just a trenchcoat?
The videos are great but I would like to hear the details of that story since you teased it out there on the website. -
Isabella,
I have already purchased the modules and extras after listening to the story of your sexual transformation a few weeks ago. They have already helped me keep my wife of 36 years happier. In the process of purchasing these videos I never got to hear the end of the story. What happened after your friend showed up with just a trenchcoat?
The videos are great but I would like to hear the details of that story since you teased it out there on the website.(It is a duplicate request for the end of the story since I did not get an answer the first time.)
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Res …ur Knowledge is So Nice
Thank u For Contributing ur Knowledge
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I Like Ur Every Details This Is Needful For Younger people In Which Way Shall I Express to Thanks u ..Really I don’t have the World ..If Man Can Be Fully Satisfied to the ladies no chances to happens any Miss behavioural from ladies in the world …It can be help full for built the relation as in Honest way By Using Differencing Method .
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I want to see more
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I would love any data you had on women that have been raped repeatedly in their teen and or have Asperger’s. I have been fantasy/kinky/verbal/oral/anal since I was a teen. Now at 64 I fooled myself and married a wonderful woman who can only have good sex if the man is very primal and wants only intercourse and never addresses her orgasm.
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Hi Isabella…
Love the article. Very informative indeed…
The best thing that any man need to kep in mind, anytime he goes on her is that…
1. Always listen top her body very closely. Her body says it all. if you are attentive enough, you just can’t go wrong!
2. Be creative with your moves and lovemaking. Woman just love surprises. Kis her in a place she never expected. tease her on areas she never thought of. Let your mind do all the playing! She will go wild…
Thanks again for the lovely article ..
Regards
Emma -
Please keep me on your mailing list. I do find the girls by and large love sex toys but may not admit.
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