5 Tricks To Lasting All Night Long

Tell me if this scenario sounds familiar: you’re in bed with a girl, you’re both enjoying yourselves, and you’re about to wow her with your next move when wham! You finish early. Your girl smiles and mumbles something, and you feel like a sexual failure.

This scene is all too common, but it thankfully can be avoided next time with just a few tweaks.  Use the following tips next time you feel the need to push off that inevitable moment, and last all night.

Distract Yourself

Forget the usual advice to “think about baseball.” Or Margaret Thatcher naked.  You don’t want to be scared off sex forever!  It may seem counter-intuitive, but the best thing to distract yourself with is how sex feels, looks, even smells and tastes.

Instead of mindlessly pumping away toward the Big O, pay attention to other things, like how soft your partner’s skin is, the curve of her neck, or the pain of her nails dragging down your back. Notice the smell of her skin and the wetness between her thighs. When you become mindful, you can last longer and enjoy the sexual experience more. What could be better than that?

Concentrate on Her Pleasure

Instead of focusing on yourself, make it all about her. Choose positions that feel best for her (trust me, she’ll let you know when you’ve hit the right spot). Pay attention to her body’s cues, and you won’t be so hung up on your own

Women are all about foreplay, so if you can make the foreplay last a long time it won’t matter if you finish shortly after the actual sex starts because in her head it started long before the actual penetration. Once she’s had a few orgasms, keep going, and try to get a new personal “high score”. Remember, a high percentage of women are multi-orgasmic, so challenge yourself to give her more than last time! Making the experience better for her is going to not only improve your stamina but will also improve your sexual reputation.

Change Positions

This is the single easiest thing you can do to avoid premature ejaculation. If you feel yourself getting a bit too heated in one position, move to a completely different one.  If you are in doggie style, move to missionary.  The trick is to really change it up-moving from one variation of doggie to another isn’t going to cut it.  Be careful not to change positions too frequently, as it is going to take her out of the mood and feel more like a distraction than anything else.

Wear a Condom

First of all, you should be practicing safe sex anyway, and for most of you, that means wearing a condom.  However, if you are in a long term relationship, or you’ve both been tested and she’s on the pill, condoms might not seem like a necessity. If you’re hav

ing trouble lasting, though, that little prophylactic can be a lifesaver. We all know that condoms can dull sensation? In this case, a little dulling is exactly what you need. There are plenty of good brands out there now that feel almost like you’re not wearing anything, except that little extra something can keep you lasting much longer.

Change Your Masturbation Habits

If I were to tell you to stop masturbating altogether, and you were to actually listen, your next sexual encounter would probably be record for shortest time between start and finish. I won’t tell you to stop the self-love!  I will, however, let you in on a secret. When you are young and just discovering masturbation, you tend to do it fast and furiously, which made sense back then because you were trying not to get caught. Nowadays you hopefully have more leisure but probably still use the vice-grip, carpal-tunnel inducing, furious shake technique you used at 14.  Stop it!

Use your self-love time to retrain your body to sustain an erection. Use the start-stop technique of backing off when you feel an orgasm coming on. Doing that a few times will not only train your penis to stay hard without cumming, it will also make the inevitable payoff mind-blowingly better than your normal orgasm.

This technique also translates well to the bedroom.  Slow down every time you’re on the verge and by the time you do climax the release will be incredible.

Being an amazing lover isn’t all about lasting longer in bed, but using these tricks to make yourself last longer can have the effect of making you a better lover.  With just a few simple tweaks to your technique, you can improve your stamina, keep going all night long, and make yourself seem like a sex god in her eyes.  It’s a win-win for both of you.

To your sexual future,

Isabella Stone

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To your sexual future,

Isabella Stone



  1. Thanks for all the tips ladies…. my moniker here is not a claim of mastery but an affirmation of my goal to become a luvmaster able to expand the sexual and sensual pleasures of my lady to her maximum potential. I look forward to learning all I can from you.

  2. I would add, relieving the bladder, and even masturbating before making love to take the pressure off the Male Sex. organs. Stopping, slowing down, pausing, changing what part of your cock you use to stimulate her, and where are the ways men can eventually learn self-control. Your other comments are the difference between “Fucking” and “Making Love” NO? I mean, when you are paying for sex, or being paid to have sex, the last things you worry about is the feeling of her skin, or how she feels about sex, much less if she is going to get off, etc.

  3. @Paul – The problem with masturbating before hand is that it can take the average guy anywhere from 11-94 minute to be able to get and maintain another erection. If you masturbate too soon before having sex, you run the risk of not being able to get it up in the heat of the moment.

  4. You must be a red hot Stone!!! lol Well those suggestion are something I sure will try.But, for a guy 60 or older what do you have in your bags of tricks for getting the old wood firm again or other herbal remmidies.? Thainks

  5. @Joe – If you are having problems getting or maintaining an erection, the common thing people do is immediately go to their doctor an ask for that little blue pill.

    But, before you do that it’s important you cut greasy and very sugary foods out of your diet. As well as stop smoking and cut down on hard liquors such as whiskey. You should also work to relieve stress by meditating, or just going for a quiet jog in the mornings.

    Finally, exercise is VERY important since it helps to produce more testosterone, and keep the blood flowing down there.

    Before you jump on the Viagra bandwagon, give these safer suggestions a shot first.



  8. Hi Isabella

    Here’s a crazy question? I seem to have the opposite problem. I last way way too long and cannot cum inside a pussy. Last Sunday I was with my girlfriend and we fucked for 2 hours After she had cum a whole bunch of times I finally had to roll over take the condom off and masturbate to cum. It is turn on for me to see my lady cum repeatly but I also find it is a complete turn on for a women to feel their man cum as well. Any suggestions to help me cum sooner? Is there some way I can put some sensitivity back into my penis?



  9. a nice comment:
    I like the follow-up comment you make about how to produce more testosterone.

  10. why is it that my ladies do not get organism when am in inside even if i stay longer in her but prefers touching her top and the organisms come suddenly

  11. A number of years ago a study was conducted in the UK.
    15,000 men were observed concerning sexual behavior ages 45 -65…4 a time frame of 15 years…..the worst part in my estimation was from the men who neither had SEX with a woman nor master bated reached the age of 60….there were Varing degrees of success & ability 2 maintain erections erections…the overall result recorded was that generally the more penial. activity the stronger the wood.
    I like what I see U recommending I shall tweet a few thing because of what U shared. Having taken 2 hard the wisdom of this study I find that I have rock solid erections lasting in excess of 60- 80 minutes …..I’m on the down side of 69 years….I find that it takes a little longer 2 get 2 rock solid & the pleasure is phenomenal

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