She’s lying on the bed, legs spread, and slides her panties to the side… you know what she wants.

She’s kissing you roughly, pushing your hands away from her, pulling your head down…you know what she wants.

She takes you deep inside her mouth, flashes you a sexy smile, and then straddles your face…you know what she wants.

Whether you’re having a hot one night hook-up, or are in a long term relationship, girls often love head. It can be when they’re at their most horny, most intimate… or just the final straw of seeing what kind of lover you are before they have sex with you.

Trouble is, girls are picky; and all wired completely differently. Your ex loved you sucking her clit, your current girlfriend hates it.

The fact is, head is hard enough to get right as it is…. so don’t screw up by making the five most common mistakes guys make when giving head.

1. Don’t Aim Too High: If where you’re licking more closely resembles a girl’s belly button, than it does her pussy, you’re way too high. You may think you can avoid getting down and dirty by just licking around her pussy… don’t kid yourself, this won’t work. There are very specific areas girls are sensitive in: fail to hit the spot and you won’t turn her on.

2. It’s Not All About You: Guys often make the mistake of thinking girls are as fixated on penetration as they are: so they think head should actually be a. Fingering b. Using your tongue in place of your penis. Neither is correct. Sure licking inside her pussy, or fingering her, feels good: but that isn’t the point of head. Your mission, is to find her clit, then bring in your fingers as an added extra, not the main show.

3. There’s More Than One Way To…: When you’ve got to her clit not all girls will want you to stimulate it in the same way. Some will love you sucking it, others will want you to lick it fast and horizontal, others slowly length ways. Unfortunately there’s no clear signage down there as to which one your girl is going to prefer. So go for trial and error- start off slow, and keep your teeth way out of there.

4. Girls Are Delicate: Yep the fairer sex is softer all round. This means that if you’re too rough with her- it will hurt. So keep your fingers well lubricated, your beard soft, or nonexistent, and get your tongue safely far away from your teeth’s interference.

5. Keep It Up: You may feel like you could come after a couple of minutes of jaw dropping head: but sometimes women need, I kid you not, hours. The most common length of time it takes a woman to orgasm is about 20 minutes…so you need to train yourself to last that long and not be a lazy lover.

Get head right though and you’re on to a winner. Make a girl come during a one night stand and she’ll come back for more. Give great head in your relationship and expect to receive in return.

And if you want to convince a girl to sleep with you? Then there’s no better way of showing that you know how to give a woman exactly what she wants.

To your sexual future,

Isabella Stone


  1. I have always given head to all women that I have been with, short term or long. I expected to get head in return but have listened to all excuses a woman comes up with, I know I give good head because they do cum before I even penetration.

  2. i found the article very interesting but i do have a question. Do older women react differently then younger woman and if so how and why because my girlfriend is in her thirtied and i am in my forties a few years shy of 50 so i want to be able to please her the best i can when we finally are able to meet because as things are we are in different countries so im learning ways to satisfy her before she is here because i know she has the upper hand because of the age thing thank you and i have other questions bit thid will do for now

  3. I DON’T CARE what ANYONE says, I REFUSE to go down on a woman for more than SIX HOURS per session !!!!!!!!!!

  4. Hello..You are one fantastic LADY…your tips and techniques are priceless,it’s a shame they were not taught at school…the world would be a far better place..with more sexually happy people,most conflicts in this world disappear….Robert xx

  5. That’s the way it is. Not all chicks are the same. Vary the action and keep going to discover what really turns her on. Keep going long enough to bring her the big O.

  6. Well, this time you’re wrong. I was always great at that, and yes, it sometimes went on for hours. It did very well for me in the popularity department. My first girlfriend from High School didn’t want me to and thought I was ick-ing her out, and none for me either. My second and thirds loved it. Unfortunately, my spouse “announced” one day that she was through with it. She’s post-meno, now. Oh well.

  7. Instead of telling what could go wrong .have a video to show a general technique on how to do it right. And explain what going on if you cant see what’s going. Like nina Hartley does in her videos.

  8. I agree about the alphabet, however I have found that if you trace ancient Egyptian heiroglyphics with your tongue and chant like a Tibetan Monk she will come in under the six hours Chaz mentions.

  9. You are very correct, as I expected you to be. I agree, don’t be too fast or rough, keep your teeth away from the clit. Listen or be sensitive non-verbal feed back. She will let you know when you are doing something she loves. And as you said, be patient!!!!!! Don’t expect a instant orgasm, but, the heat is building, especially if you are attuned to your partners responses’

  10. Thanks for this advice because now I can treat her the way that she wants to be treated. As men, we do not know what will turn a woman on and off and thing that everything that we are trying is being liked by her, but being a gentleman, you must learn all these techniques!

  11. Hello my dear sexy and hot darling isa,

    I am very in the giving head to my girl but despite of that your article give some more information ,
    it was as juicy as your————
    like it my sexy baby————
    keep it continue,
    Waiting for you baby

  12. I Love giving head to women. I’ve known for a long time that if you can make her cum with your tongue, she will want to come back for more. I just got sober after 9 years of heavy drinking (since my divorce) and have not been very social. I am very motivated now to get out & meet new women and “practice my principles in All their affairs”… I haven’t been in a relationship for 3 years and I’m busting out at the seams! All those women out there don’t know what they’re missing when they pass me by………

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