Where is the clitoris located?

You know that the clitoris is essential to making a woman orgasm.

You also know that in order to do this, you have to work out where the clitoris is.

Not knowing the geography of the clitoris is like not knowing where to find your car keys: if you want to get anywhere sexually, you have to know where the clitoris is. You need to have the keys to drive the car.

If you don’t know where the clitoris is, then you’re not going to be able to drive your partner to orgasm. In fact, not knowing where the clitoris is, leads straight down the road to sexual dissatisfaction.

Many women can only orgasm through stimulating the clitoris. If you don’t know where the clitoris is, and how to stimulate it, then she won’t orgasm, you’ll feel like a hopeless lover, then spend ages googling ‘where is the clitoris?’ afterwards in remorse.

I don’t want you to do that. I want you to know where the clitoris is before the woman is naked.

I don’t want you to be pulling her thong off thinking, ‘fuck where is the clitoris?’, or lie awake after sex sighing, ‘if only I could have known where the clitoris is.’

You want to know where the clitoris is, and how you can use it, way before you’re tearing her clothes off.

Sometimes googling ‘where is the clitoris’ just doesn’t cut it though.

So i’m here to give you this answer:

‘The clitoris is located near the anterior junction of the labia minora, above the opening of the urethra and vagina’

Great for med students: possibly not so helpful for you. So I’m going to tell you, in layman’s terms, where the clitoris is.

When you’re looking for the clitoris I want you to imagine a hot woman spread eagled on the bed (a tough job I know). Open her legs, and look down to her naked pussy. Where a woman’s clitoris is, is close to the entrance to her vagina (easier to locate, as you can slide your fingers in it). In fact, where a woman’s clitoris is, is just above the entrance to the vagina and urethra.

A woman’s clitoris is at the top of her pussy; where her pussy lips connect above her vagina. Where the clitoris hangs out is just at the top parting of these lips. If you want to find where her clitoris is exactly, move her vaginal lips gently apart and notice at the top where the clitoral ‘button’ slightly protrudes.

You can see where the clitoris is, compared to the rest of her pussy, via this very sensitive piece of protruding anatomy: that becomes larger when she’s hornier. Yup, turn a woman on and where the clitoris is will become a lot more obvious; as the clitoris swells with sexual excitement.

Now you know where the clitoris is, don’t forget about it.

Don’t be one of those guys who ignores the clitoris. Instead, understand that where the clitoris is, is also where a woman feels most sensitive. Stimulate the clitoris successfully, and your woman stands the best chance of orgasming.

So your mission, if you choose to be a porn star style lover, is to find where the clitoris is, get great at stimulating it, and become the kind of lover that makes a woman orgasm, again and again.

To your sexual future,

Isabella Stone